OutgoingOutgoing is an adjective that allows to refer to the person which is given to the extraversion (the movement of the mind that comes out of itself through the senses). Someone who is extroverted has a tendency to socialize with ease and to stand out in meetings, to seek to be the center of attention.

The Swiss psychologist and psychiatrist Carl Gustav Jung (18751961) was the promoter of the notions of extraversion and introversion in his theories of personality. In order to Jung, extraversion is the attitude characterized by focus interest on an external object. This assumes that the extroverted person is interested in the other when establishing a social bond and predisposes their mood for the relationship to prosper. Instead, introversion is the attitude characterized by the concentration of interest in the internal processes of the individual.

Importantly, these facets of personality are not absolute: that is, There is neither a totally extroverted person nor, on the contrary, a totally introverted person. In each individual, one of the two attitudes is more noticeable and is more marked. However, there are times when extraversion may stand out, while at other times, the same subject may be introverted.

Yes it is impossible, worth the clarification, to maintain an extroverted and introverted attitude at the same time, since these are not dimensions that can be exposed simultaneously. A healthy personality is flexible and can adapt the attitude to the context in a Balance that allows the subject to respond to external stimuli without conflict.

In a partyFor example, it is very likely that extroverts tend to make jokes, to dance in the center of the dance floor, to converse with people they did not know at all before the event; It is in this type of numerous meetings where these individuals test their extraversion to the maximum, since they feel, in some way, the responsibility of generate a pleasant climate.

OutgoingIt is important to highlight this aspect of extraversion, since in general the focus is on the search for leadership, and the service that these people do to those who, otherwise, would spend hours without talking to anyone, missing opportunities to meet interesting people, who can open doors for them on a professional or personal level, for fear of embarrassment; extroverted individuals make it possible to establish ties between those around them, so their attitude should not be equated with selfishness or self-centeredness.

Referring back to the etymology From the word extrovert, we note that it is a person who sends his emotions abroad, who expresses his feelings without problems; Through this attitude, a series of concerns typical of interpersonal relationships are subtracted, which allows him to function fluently in a conversation with strangers. It is possible to say that they voluntarily expose their weaknesses, so that they are no longer unspeakable secrets, and this frees them from tension, from fear of potential attacks or public humiliation.

For an introvert, which in certain cases can be synonymous with Shy, it is very difficult to speak in public, and many times they think for too long what to say, until it is too late. There is a terror of being embarrassed, of having their intelligence questioned; but they also fear that they are not interesting enough to have something to add to what has already been said.

In a conversation with a stranger, an outgoing individual correct your mistakes without any problem, and is able to laugh at them if he deems it necessary; on the contrary, for the introvert, a simple stumble, a mispronounced name, or a word spoken instead of another can mean a humiliation that blocks you and prevents you from continuing to speak.